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‘Too old to be sexy’

Bebe Rexha shares body shaming experiences

Published:Saturday | August 31, 2019 | 12:00 AM
Bebe Rexha poses in the press room with the award for best dance video for “Call You Mine” at the MTV Video Music Awards at the Prudential Center on August 26.
Singer, Bebe Rexha.
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Bebe Rexha feels that it is important to “shine light” on the problems with ageism in the music industry.

The 30-year-old singer has been outspoken about her own experiences of body shaming and ageism and has called out designers for refusing to dress her for the Grammys because of her size, as well as recently slamming a music executive who told her she was “too old to be sexy”.

And although she doesn’t want to be seen to always be the one “complaining”, Bebe thinks that if more people speak out when they’ve been unnecessarily judged based on their appearance, age, or background, it will “hopefully get better over time”.

She told PEOPLE: “I don’t want to seem like that person that’s always complaining.

“I just want to be able to speak out and just shine light on it because it’s been happening for so long, and it will always happen, unfortunately. That’s just the way life is; you’re never going to fix something completely, but you can shine light on it, and hopefully, it will get better over time.

“No matter if it’s a female or a male, if they walk into a job and they’re good and they kill it, no matter what or who they are, they should have the chance.

“They shouldn’t be judged by the way they look or how old they are or where they come from.”

The I’m A Mess hitmaker admitted that it’s tough because everyone, including herself, has been left (overwhelmed) by expectations to be “beautiful” in the eyes of society and said that if she had a choice, she would much rather go make-up-free when she performs.

Bebe added: “It’s hard to do because in our society, we really are told, ‘This is what’s beautiful.’

“I would love to go onstage with not much make-up on, but I like to wear a lot of lashes and over-line my lips.”