Reeve’s children reveal honest stories in ‘Super/Man’ documentary

NEW YORK (AP):

Christopher Reeve’s children say they made a point to include all the complexities of their father’s life – his strengths and weaknesses – in the new documentary Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story – because that’s what he would have wanted.

The film blends family home videos with interviews and movie clips of Reeve, best known for playing Superman in four films, along with his later acting and directing roles. Reeve’s three children, Matthew, Alexandra, and Will, say there were no restrictions on topics or footage used in their father’s story.

“He wouldn’t have wanted to be viewed through rose-coloured glasses. He would want art and cinema and factual, comprehensive storytelling and that’s what he got,” Reeve’s youngest son, Will told The Associated Press. “It’s important to us to be honest and raw and vulnerable and give a 360-degree view of a very human life, of a very human family.”

Horseriding accident

Known as the ‘Man of Steel’, Reeve – an avid athlete, sailor, skier and horseman – was nearly killed in a 1995 horseriding accident that left him paralysed for the rest of his life. He used his platform to become an advocate for people with disabilities, starting a foundation in his name.

Directors Ian Bonhôte and Peter Ettedgui were able to access some never-before-seen home movies of the Reeve family before and after the accident.

“When we started to make the film, one of the things they were adamant [about] is that they will share everything. They will share the archive ... they will share their emotional states…everything,” Bonhôte said. “That was the first time they were going to do it, and they were going to go all out.”

Reeve recorded audio of his memoir before he died in 2004, so his narration is used in parts, adding to the film’s intimacy. He became a father to Matthew and Alexandra with his first partner, Gae Exton, and the family lived in the UK before Reeve moved back to the US alone. Exton, interviewed in the film, shares compelling memories of that time, while Matthew and Alexandra admit their father was not around regularly during their childhood.

Other interviews include Susan Sarandon and Glenn Close, who became friends with Reeve after he graduated from Juilliard and began acting in New York. Close suggests in the film that Reeve and Robin Williams, Juilliard classmates and close friends, had a deep connection and implies that if Reeve were still alive, Williams might be, too.

Reeve’s kids say the process of going through their archives and being interviewed for the film gave them a new perspective and appreciation of their dad. Will Reeve was only 12 when his father died. His mother, Dana, was diagnosed with cancer and died less than 18 months later. Now an ABC News correspondent, Will says he was fortunate to have had family and close friends help raise him and considers himself “pretty well-adjusted”.

“There’s a scenario in which things could have turned out differently,” Will Reeve said. “But because of the values instilled in us by our parents, because of the way that they let us into their lives, the good and the bad, the joyous and the tragic … that prepared us for life’s difficulties and life’s joys.”

One thing that impressed the directors most in their research was Reeve’s commitment to help others even after he was physically limited in his own life. After becoming a quadriplegic, Reeve and his family were shocked at the lack of resources for people with disabilities and started the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation to help improve quality of life and fund research for a cure for people with spinal cord injuries.

“He allowed him(self) to have 10 or 15 minutes of self-pity, and then he was on a mission to change the world. And I think that’s very, very inspiring because … the family as a whole, Dana and the kids, they faced a huge amount of difficulties, you know, 24-hour care, the cost,” Bonhôte said. “So he would fight for those that are less privileged than him.”